November is one of my favorite months. The air finally feels crisp and cool, the days are shorter, and everything starts to take on that quiet, cozy mood I look forward to all year. It’s a time that naturally invites slower mornings, more time at home, and meaningful gatherings with friends and family. It’s also the start of what I think of as the nesting season— setting the table, choosing gifts, lighting candles, and making our house feel warm and festive.
We have a full calendar this month, from a few exciting work moments (my birthday, a gala, and co-hosting Cabana in Charleston) to prepping for Thanksgiving and the start of the holidays. I’m sharing my birthday wishlist, what I’m planning for the Thanksgiving table, and a few pieces that feel especially good right now— soft textures, rich colors, and special details.
What We’re Doing
- November is my birthday month, and I’ve been dreaming up a wish list purely for fun—because dreaming is free! A few pieces I’d love to add to my jewelry box:
- I’m in full Christmas prep mode, which basically means I’m stockpiling wrapping paper, mapping out décor, and keeping a close eye on what’s launching when. We already had our holiday lights installed, which Thomas thought was a little excessive on Nov 4, but I’m ready to get festive! For those asking each year, we have this Balsam Hill faux tree in the 9’ size.
- We have a gala coming up, and I’m torn between a few dress options—each with its own mood. Currently debating:
- We’re hosting Thanksgiving at our house this year—Thomas is taking over the kitchen (as usual), and I’m in charge of the table. I’m leaning into warm, layered textures with these:
- This week I co-hosted Cabana in Charleston. It was such a treat to meet Martina, the founder of Cabana, and someone who I have long-admired for her taste, aesthetic and world-building with her beautiful brand.
- And lastly: Wicked 2 drops November 21, and I already have it circled. I’ll be watching in full holiday mode with the girls!
What I’m Wearing
November tends to bring out the coziest, richest textures in my closet, and this month is no different. I’m leaning into velvets, soft knits, deep tones, and pieces that work equally well for casual days and upcoming holiday events.
What I’m Buying
With the holidays on the horizon, I’ve been bookmarking things that strike the balance between practical and special— from gifting to entertaining to a few personal wardrobe additions.
What I’m Eyeing
This month, I’m craving pieces that feel layered, moody, and a little jewel-box-like. There’s a thread of opulence that keeps catching my eye— velvet, jewel tones, candlelight, a mix of old-world and playful touches.
- Pucci Orchidee Silk Pants – A bold color story with a beautifully tailored fit. I’d wear these with a fitted turtleneck and heels for a holiday dinner.
- Hawkins New York Holiday Decor
- Maison Flâneur Finds
- KRB NYC Lamps – This pair of Ming lamps are breathtaking. I’m drawn to the shape and rich color.
- Tiny Gods Satin Finish Diamond Bezel Bracelet – Sleek and wearable, this has been on my list for months. Understated with just enough shine.
- Este Dinnerware from Over the Moon – I’ve been looking to refresh a few pieces in our china cabinet, and this Vecchia Torino set in multi is subtle and a refreshing mix of colors.
- Abbaye des Vaux de Cernay Hotel – I bookmarked this hotel the moment I saw it. The interiors, the setting—it’s like stepping into a storybook.
- Everything Etro Home – Their home collection is one of the most inspiring I’ve seen lately. Here’s what I’ve saved: